Turns out while I loved her she was just infatuated with me
Alison, you can’t be more wrong. In fact, your advice leads to destruction. Go back and read the Bible because I’m sure you never have. All these new age infiltrations into Christianity are satans’s trick to turn us from God’s truth. We must learn to control it as we learn to control other urges. You may think sexual urges are the strongest but for some people, some urges are stronger than sex believe it or not. I’ll rather go through the struggle of overcoming sexual sin while I wait to get married than satisfy my flesh now and lose my friendship with God. Stop preaching the devil’s message to mislead people please. The consequence from God will be grave.
Sex outside marriage is a sin even if you’re having it with just one person and you’re faithful to that person
Marriage between one man and one woman was created and existed before human sin entered the world. “Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him…Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” (Genesis 2:18, 24). Sexual intercourse is the tie that binds a new family, a new mother and a new father: God’s design for family. Children were designed to need both a mother and a father, and scientific research proves this is the truth. Sexual intimacy keeps the “non-biological” family united the way motherhood and fatherhood biologically binds them to the offspring.